It's a lot easier too to tell a story
如果你了解某個(gè)故事
you know the story you were a part of it
或者這件事就發(fā)生在你身上 這樣講起故事來(lái)會(huì)簡(jiǎn)單得多
So again your personality is coming through you're a little bit more relax
這樣當(dāng)你放松的時(shí)候 你的個(gè)性等也更容易展現(xiàn)
Instead of saying
像佩蒂說(shuō)的,不要說(shuō)
I am junior at SPU as Patty said I am from a small town in Chicago, I have three brothers
我在西雅圖太平洋大學(xué)讀大三 來(lái)自于芝加哥的一個(gè)小鎮(zhèn),弟兄三個(gè)
it's much more, excuse me, exciting to the listener
不好意思,聽眾聽起來(lái)會(huì)更有意思
say, you know, I am at SPU last year
如果你說(shuō),我去年在西雅圖太平洋大學(xué)
I had the job opportunity to work on project
我有機(jī)會(huì)參加了一個(gè)項(xiàng)目
During that project I realized that I was really good at leading other people
在參與項(xiàng)目過(guò)程中 我意識(shí)到我很擅長(zhǎng)領(lǐng)導(dǎo)別人
and so on and so forth
等等
So it's something that you are much more at ease and it's much more interesting to the person that you are talking to
像這樣的事你講起來(lái)會(huì)比較自然 面試官聽起來(lái)也比較有意思
A little bit more about tell me about yourself
再講講談?wù)勀阕约哼@個(gè)問(wèn)題
Tell a brief story, keep it pretty short
要講一個(gè)簡(jiǎn)短的故事,一定要短
Just again, highlight your strength and skills
再說(shuō)一遍,要突出自己的優(yōu)點(diǎn)和技能
as we said, stories naturally convey enthusiasm
我們說(shuō)過(guò),故事本身就能傳達(dá)一種熱情
and you are more at ease
而你也會(huì)比較放松
And then when you are telling this brief story
在講這個(gè)小故事時(shí)
break it down into 3 parts
把它分成3部分
Talk about the challenge you faced, the situation you were in
一部分是你面對(duì)的挑戰(zhàn),遇到了哪些狀況
what actions you took specifically
你相應(yīng)的采取了哪些行動(dòng)
So even if you were on a group project
即使你參與的是一個(gè)團(tuán)體項(xiàng)目
talk about what you did specifically
也要突出你自己都做了哪些
that's what they're interested in at this time
這正是面試官感興趣的部分
And don't forget to include the results you produced
別忘了講述你處理的結(jié)果
or the outcome of the challenge
或者應(yīng)對(duì)這個(gè)挑戰(zhàn)的結(jié)局
You wanna practice these stories don't think you can just walk in and have these stories roll off your tongue
事前要嘗試練習(xí)講講這些故事 別以為你一到那兒 這些故事就自然而然涌向你的嘴邊了
You wanna take the time, you wanna be organized
要騰出時(shí)間,組織一下語(yǔ)言
you wanna rehearse them as I said
做一下預(yù)演
and you actually want to practice and rehearse them
確確實(shí)實(shí)需要進(jìn)行練習(xí)和預(yù)演
till you actually sound unrehearsed
直到你講起來(lái)就像提前沒(méi)排練過(guò)一樣
And also, when telling your stories
還有,就是講故事的時(shí)候
again you wanna tell about the positive stories
要講一些正面的故事
and practice enough, that you'll come across relaxed
提前練習(xí)這樣你會(huì)很放松
you'll be smiling
保持微笑
you'll come over as having good communication skill
這樣看起來(lái)你有良好的溝通能力
should be more engaging
更有魅力
and communicate the fact that you know yourself
向人傳達(dá)你有很好的自我認(rèn)知