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Hey Salsa,
嘿，薩爾薩，
I'm a dude. If I like you, I kiss you.
我是個男人，如果我喜歡你，我會親吻你。
And then I think about what you look like in and out of your underwear.
然后我會想象你穿著內(nèi)衣和脫了內(nèi)衣的樣子。
I'm a guy. That's how it works. No ifs, no ands, and clearly no buts.
我是個男人。事實(shí)如此，沒有也許、沒有而且也絕沒有但是。
Is he scared? Yes, he's scared of hurting your feelings.
他害怕了？是的，他害怕傷害你的感情。
That's why he hasn't clarified the relationship.
這就是他沒有申明這段感情的原因。
He may even be biding his time hoping he will develop deeper feelings for you.
他也許在等待時機(jī)，希望自己能跟對你有更深的感情。
When this dude tells you he loves you and that he hopes you never lose touch again, he may as well be signing your yearbook.
當(dāng)這哥們兒告訴你他愛你，希望永遠(yuǎn)不會失去你的聯(lián)系時，他也可能正在簽署你的年鑒。
He loves you as a friend. If he were in love with you, he wouldn't be able to help himself from getting involved in a romantic relationship regardless of his fear or past experiences.
他把你當(dāng)一個朋友來喜歡。如果他喜歡你的話，他會盡其所能跟你談戀愛，不理會恐懼和過去。
I say, move on! Go meet someone more worthy of your affections and hot salsa moves.
我會說，繼續(xù)前進(jìn)！尋找一個更值得你感情和薩爾薩舞無不的人。
Adios, Greg
再見，格雷格
There are lots of reasons a man might not want to take a friendship to the “next level.”
男人有很多不想讓友誼進(jìn)一步發(fā)展的理由。
It really doesn't matter what they are or if they make any sense to you.
他們是什么，是否有意義都不重要。
The bottom line is that when he imagines being with you more intimately (and trust me, we do think about these things) , he pauses and then says to himself, "Nah."
底線就是當(dāng)他想象與你更親密時（相信我，我們會想這些事的），他會暫停然后對自己說，“不。”
Don't spend any more time thinking about it, other than saying to yourself, clearly, "His loss."
不要再花更多的時間想這些了，不如對自己明確的說，“這是他的損失。”
The "He's So Into Me That Now He's Not" Excuse
“他很喜歡我但是現(xiàn)在不了”的借口
Dear Greg,
親愛的格雷格，
I've been dating a guy for a month. We've had sex and it's been nice.
我和一個人約會了1個月，我們做愛很合拍。
Just when it seemed like things were really "taking off," we stopped having sex.
但是當(dāng)事情正要步入正軌的時候，我們不再做愛了。
I've stayed over at his house four times now and we end up just...sleeping.
我在他家過夜了四次，但是除了睡覺什么都沒做。
Some cuddling, but that's about it. It's weird, but sex just doesn't happen anymore.
只是擁抱而已，這太奇怪了，但是就是不再做愛了。
It's humiliating to have to ask him what's going on, so I'm just going to assume that it's actually because he's really, really into me, and he's just scared.
去問他原因很丟臉，所以我設(shè)想他是因?yàn)樘矚g我了，但是太害怕了。
Signed Sally
薩莉
