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The little words that work marriage magic - Spike
創造婚姻奇跡的小字眼 - 斯派克
Using terms of endearment like honey or sweetheart from time to time is a small but important way to keep a marriage loving.
使用母女情深是一個小而重要的方法來保持婚姻的愛。
These terms make the other person feel loved and special. There are some other words that can help make your spouse feel special and aware of how much you love and appreciate him.
這樣會使對方感受到特殊的愛。還有一些其他的語言,可以幫助使你的伴侶感受到特別的愛，并意識到你到底有多喜歡和欣賞他。
"Thank you." We would not never thank a friend or co-worker for helping us out.
“謝謝你”，我們不會永遠去感謝朋友或者同事吧。
But sometimes we forget to thank the person who we love most: our spouse. All couples forget now and then to thank each other for all they do. But thanking each other is a good habit to fall into because gratitude is necessary for the growth of love.
但是有時候，我們會忘記那個我們愛的人：另一半。所有的夫婦會忘記，過后再去謝謝那為他們付出的。但是感謝對方是表達出愛意的一個好習慣。
Knowing that their actions are appreciated makes a couple more giving toward each other, and the more you give to each other the more your love will grow.
他們知道自己的行動是對對方的一種欣賞。給得別人越多，你就會成長的越多。
"Please." Please, like thank you, is easy to forget to say, but it too is very important in a relationship. Because it is another way of letting your partner know you don't take him for granted and that his time and effort count.
“請~”就像“謝謝”一樣，很容易忘記說。但是在一段關系里，非常中意。因為這是另外一種讓你的伙伴不會認為他是無用或者是浪費時間和精力的方法。
"You are great." Do you know that this sentence can make him feel good about himself all day? Now that you know how nice it makes him feel to be complimented, you should try to do it as often as you can.
“你很棒！”你知道這句話可以讓他興奮一整天嗎？你會看到他回感到很滿意，所以應該盡力的去做到。
As an added bonus, he will begin paying compliments to you more often. This is not surprising since, experts, say, compliments are a two-way street.
另外，他也會給你很多贊美的話。這并不奇怪,因為專家說,贊美是一條雙行道。
So the more compliments you give, the more you get. Often couples will think nice things about each other but not verbalize their thoughts because they're just not in the habit of doing so. But when one of them starts, the other will pick up on the cue and begin doing the same.
因此，你贊美的越多，你得到的也越多。經常夫妻會認為好東西對彼此但不是用言語表達他們的想法,因為他們只是不習慣這樣做。但是，當開始的時候，會選擇提示開始做同樣的事。
"I love you." in a new way a small variation such as "I love you more each day" can make a big difference in how you feel about each other.
"我愛你。”用另外一種方式：我愛你每一天可以讓你有一個你如何對彼此的感覺影響很大的。
When you say "I love you" the exact same way over and over, your spouse may start to discount it.
當你用同樣的方式，一遍一遍地對她說“我愛你”時，她會開始厭煩了。
On the other hand, a fresh phrase can help keep the relationship fresh.
另一方面，新穎的表達會帶來不一樣的新鮮感。
For instance, you can express your love for him by saying "I'm so glad you're in my life." I'm sure he will be really impressed and touched, and you two will feel closer.
例如，向他表達愛時你可以說“很高興，我的生命里有你。”我相信他回被深深的打動，你們的關系會更近一步了。
