Don’t suffer in silence if a teacher is getting out of line with you. Take these steps to correct the situation.
如果老師對你做了出格的事,不要只是沉默,采取以下的步驟來糾正那種狀況。
Step 1
Know what’s right and wrong. It’s fine if your teacher is taking a personal interest in your studies, but it’s not OK if they are asking prying questions about your love life.
要分清對和錯。如果你的老師只是對你的學習感興趣,那沒關系;如果他們詢問你窺測性的問題,比如你的愛情生活,那就不正常了。
Step 2
If you’re unsure if your teacher is overstepping, ask yourself this: Would your parents disapprove of things your teacher says to you or does with you? If so, they are behaving inappropriately.
如果你不確定你的老師是否出格,問下你自己:老師對你說的事或和你做過的事,父母不贊成嗎?如果父母不贊成,那說明老師的行為不端。
Step 3
If your teacher is making you uncomfortable but hasn’t actually said or done anything improper, restrict your time with them to the classroom. Don’t have any interaction with them that doesn’t involve schoolwork.
如果你的老師只是讓你感到不自在,但實際上沒有做任何不妥的事,你要限定和他(她)一起呆在教室的時間。不要和他們交流和學業無關的事。
Tip:Don’t let them manipulate you into spending time alone with them.
不要喝他們獨處,不給他們可乘之機,
Step 4
If your teacher crosses the line in any way, like touching you, sending you suggestive e-mails or text messages, buying you alcohol, or showing you pornography, tell your parents immediately and report your teacher to the principal.
如果老師對你做了出格的事,比如摸你,或是發暗示性的郵件或短信,給你買酒或是給你看色情讀物,馬上告訴你們的父母,并向校長舉報那個老師。
Step 5
Don’t blame yourself. Even if a part of you enjoyed the attention, they’re the adult.
不要責備自己。即使你有些喜歡引起注意,但老師是成年人。