If you’re struggling to get noticed by Mr. Right, this guide will turn on a flashing arrow over your head so you can meet the man of your dreams.
如果你正試圖讓“夢中情人”注意到你，下面的指導會助你一臂之力，讓你遇到如意郎君。

Step 1: Research him
Do a little research — talk to his friends to find about what he’s like and what he likes to do.
第一步:研究他
要研究他——和他的朋友談談，發現他喜歡的事物和喜歡做的事。

Step 2: Get closer
Get closer by joining his gym or volunteering or participating in causes he believes in, such as a homeless shelter, soup kitchen, political rally, or church program. Choose only the activities that you’re actually interested in, too, so that you’re spending time around him without being creepy.
第二步:要進一步接近
要進一步接近他：比如和他一起去健身或是一起去做他信仰的事，比如搭建為無家人準備的帳篷，為救濟貧民設立施舍處, 進行政治集會或者做些教堂組織的活動。要選擇那些你也很感興趣的活動，以便你不必感到拘束，順氣而然地和他在一起。

Tip：Wear his favorite sports team’s jersey or colors to school, a party, or whenever you’re around him.
小貼士:上學時或去參加聚會時，或是只要他在你身邊時，你要穿上他最喜歡的球隊的運動衫。

Step 3: Pay him a compliment
Pay him a compliment via text message, e-mail or online through a social network.
第三步:問候他
通過短信，電子郵件或社交網絡的在線服務來問候他。

Step 4: Whip out the electronic device
Whip out the latest electronic device to show that you are tech savvy. This is a great way to catch his eye without being too obvious.
第四步:馬上拿出電子設備
馬上拿出電子設備來表明你懂得科技。這是種不太明顯但是能吸引他眼球的好辦法

Step 5: Play to his baser instincts
Flirt with him and then be coy or play hard to get. Most guys enjoy a good chase.
第五步:要挑起他追你的欲望
和他調情，然后要變得害羞或讓他很難追到，大多數男人都喜歡追想盡辦法去追女孩。

Step 6: Be confident
Be confident in yourself above all else. Trying to be someone you’re not will only attract the wrong kind of man for you.
第六步:要自信
最重要的是要自信。試圖做你不想當的那種人只會吸引不合適的男人。