But what exactly would I be blaming her for?但我要怪她什么

blame someone for something:把某事的責任歸咎于某人,因某事責怪某人

I don't blame her for dumping me.

我沒有因為她拋棄我而責備她。

I blame him for not observing the rule.

我責備他沒有遵守這個規(guī)則。

But if I was gonna get free, I'd have to do it on my own.但我必須要靠自己來獲得自由

get free:獲得自由

How can I get free of my vexation?

我怎么才能從我的煩惱中解脫出來?

on one's own:獨自地； 獨立地； 主動地

I was able to finish the job on my own.

我能獨自地把工作做完。

He can be left to work on his own.

工作可交給他一個人去做。

相關短語:

on one's own initiative主動地

She helped her students on her own initiative.

她主動地幫助自己的學生。

on one's own account為自身利益

He did it on his own account, not for anyone else.

他做這件事是為自己的利益,而不是為別人。

stand on one's own feet獨立自主

We should learn to stand on our own feet.

我們要學習依靠自己。