《絕望的主婦》里的結束語,每一集結束后有關于生活的總結,之所以喜歡看主婦,就是因為它記述的是生活的點滴,但是反應的確實實實在在的大道理,有時甚至回放很多結束語,因為真的很經典。。。
Everyone understands the nature of war, we also understand that victory depends on the cards that we have been dealt. Some when faced with a bloody battle simply give in, but for some surrender is unacceptable, even though they know it would be a fight to the death.
每個人都清楚戰爭的本性,我們也知道勝利取決于我們打出的那些牌。有些人在面對血戰會 從容放棄;但是對某些人來說投降是無法接受的,盡管他們清楚面前的是決一死戰。
The world is filled with unlikely friendships. How did they begin, with one person desperately in need and another willing to lend a helping hand. When such kindness is offered, we are finally able to see the worth of those we have previously written off, and before we've known it, a bond has formed, regardless of whether others can understand it. Yes, unlikely friendships start up everyday, no one understands this more than the lonely, in fact, it's what they count on.
世界上到處都是不太可能的友誼。它們都是由一方迫切的需求和另一方伸出的援助之手開始的。當這樣的幫助提供給我們的時候,我們才明白曾經失敗的價值。在我們相識之前,一條紐帶就已經把我們連接在一起了,不管別人能否理解。的確,不太可能的友誼每天都在發生,沒有人能比孤獨寂寞的人更了解這一點。事實上,不太可能發生的友誼就是他們的指望。
Now and then we all need a little help, so we ask for small favors. But it's always best to be wary of those eager to come to our rescue. Because even the smallest of favors carries a price tag. Yes, everyone has an agenda, no matter what they may tell us...and in those rare instances where there is no ulterior motive, we're so taking aback that we may fail to recognize the truth - that a loving friend has just done us an enormous favor.
偶爾我們總會需要幫助,所以我們請別人幫點小忙。不過對那些急切想拯救我們的人最好要帶著一顆機警的心。因為哪怕是最小的恩惠都是有價格的。是的,每個人心里都有一本帳,不管他們告訴我們什么。別有用心的人太多了,像好朋友幫了大忙這樣的情況真是少之又少。我們過分的警覺導致我們失去了對真相的判斷力。
This is how Bree Van De Kamp finally came to change her weekly routine, she still cleaned on Tuesdays, paid her bills on Wednesdays, and did her laundries on Thursdays, but her Fridays were now reserved for a meeting, a special meeting where she stood in front of people she didn’t know, and said things she didn't believe, and afterwards Bree would come home and reward herself on the completion of another successful week.
這就是Bree Van De Kamp如何最終改變了自己的每周安排,她仍然在周二打掃衛生;在周三付帳單;在周四洗衣服,但每個周五她要參加一個特別會議,在會議上她站在一群陌生人面前說她自己都不相信的話,然后回到家中犒勞自己,祝賀完滿成功的一周。
At that precise moment as Dr Hanson Mills was cutting yet another umbilical cord, other ties were being severed all over town, like the one between a child and a mother who didn't want him to grow up so quickly, or the one between a case of fine wine and a housewife who hadn't wanted to admit she had a problem, or the one between a women and the boyfriend who couldn't forgive her betrayal. The choice to separate from what we love is painful; the only thing worse is when someone we've trusted makes the choice for us.
就在Hanson Mills醫生切斷另一根臍帶的時候,小鎮上其他的聯系也被切斷了。像一個母親和兒子之間,母親不想孩子那么快就長大;一箱好酒和主婦之間的關系,主婦不想承認她酗 酒;或是一個女人和男友之間的關系,男友不能原諒她的背叛。選擇離開我們的愛是痛苦的,更糟糕的是我們信任的人讓我們做這樣的選擇。