Getting and giving advice can often be a tricky business

because you never really know anyone

unless you walk a mile in their shoes.

Having said that, I love getting advice

because it is a caring, intimate experience.

得到建議和提出建議常常會是棘手的事情，

除非你親身經歷一下別人的處境，

否則不會真正了解別人。

就此而言，我喜歡得到建議，

因為這是一種關懷，是親近的體驗。