5. Constant break-up drama

5. 連續(xù)發(fā)生的分手悲劇

Some couples have quite blurred understandings concerning a healthy relationship. They perceive a long-term relationship as a permanent drama. Do you prefer drama? Every break-up makes you experience oppressive emotions, and that is far not a passion at all. Such actions kill feelings like a cancer. Getting back is preferable only if you are fond of thrills and tensed relationship.

一些情侶對健康的情侶關(guān)系只有一個模糊的理解。他們將一段長期的戀情視為一出永遠(yuǎn)演下去的電視劇。你喜歡看電視劇嗎？每一幕分手的場景都讓你感覺到壓抑，而那遠(yuǎn)不是激情。這種行為向癌癥一樣讓痛苦。如果你喜歡恐怖片或是緊張的關(guān)系，那么當(dāng)然回頭找他也是可以的。

6. Loneliness

6. 孤獨

When you are lonely, you are more likely to think of him. Sometimes you want to call up to your ex-boyfriend, but it's not the way out. Such ideas and feelings can be quickly passing. Think over your break up again and these desires will fade away in a moment.

你感到孤獨的時候是你最有可能想起前男友的時候。有時候你想給他打電話，但這絕不是解決辦法。這種想法和感覺很快會過去的。想想你們分手時的場景吧，這種沖動將轉(zhuǎn)瞬即逝。

7. Family disapproval

7. 家庭發(fā)對

It often happens that the whole world is against you, especially when it comes about love. Someone finds it romantic while others treat such relations as a challenging thing. Sure, you can ignore your family's position, but then you are doomed to spend your time only at two people parties.

你總感覺整個世界都在反對你，尤其在愛情這件事上。同一段關(guān)系，有的人認(rèn)為很浪漫，有的人卻不斷質(zhì)疑。當(dāng)然，你可以忽視家里人的反對，但這樣你們注定只能生活在“二人世界”里。

Try to reflect properly on the reason of your break up before taking a decision. Be aware of passing temptation and emotions, puzzling your mind all the time. Move forward, by all means!

盡量在決定之前對你們分手的原因有一個正確的認(rèn)識。當(dāng)心那些心血來潮的沖動和小情緒，它們只會讓你更加難做決定。無論如何，要向前看。