你總是會(huì)從他們嘴里聽到真相
Good friends don’t lie. (Except on rare occasions of the “Does this dress make me look fat?” sort. Those kinds of lies don’t count, because they are intended to spare your feelings.) When the chips are down and you really need to be told the truth, your friends may hate it…but they’ll do it. This applies in situations like when your friends tell you maybe you’re partying a little too much or working too hard. If they tell you something like this, they’re speaking from the heart. You owe it to them and your friendship to listen.
好朋友不會(huì)騙你。(除非是那種“這件衣服是不是讓我看起來很胖?”這樣偶爾出現(xiàn)的情況。這種謊言不算,因?yàn)樗麄兪菫榱苏疹櫮愕母惺堋#┊?dāng)?shù)搅岁P(guān)鍵時(shí)刻,你真的需要知道真相時(shí),你的朋友也許會(huì)討厭那樣做……但是他們還是會(huì)那樣做。還有的時(shí)候你的朋友告訴你,你聚會(huì)的次數(shù)也許太多了或工作太賣力。如果他們對(duì)你說類似的話,他們是真心的。你要多謝他們并要認(rèn)真傾聽。