Bonus Tips:

* In the beginning, never turn down an invitation from someone, even if it’s something you wouldn’t normally do.

* Email your new friends with fun things to do instead of always asking what their plans are. If they have a better plan you can always still drop yours and join them. This will help establish you as someone who is contributing value instead of just taking it (people want this in a friend).

* Don’t let little things in life piss you off or be a negative person. Others won’t want to be around you!

額外提示：

* 開始時，絕不要拒絕別人的邀請，即使那是你一般不喜歡做的事情。

* 給新朋友發郵件要說些有趣的事，不要總是問他們的打算如何。如果他們有個不錯的計劃，你可以談談你的想法，加入進去。這樣有助于讓別人看到你的價值，而不會僅僅是猜測（人們希望朋友是這樣的人。）

* 別為生活中的小事煩惱，或做悲觀的人。別人不會愿意和這種人交往。