
Take a course in happiness. Happiness study is revolutionizing how we think of psychology, economics, and sociology. Preview: Learn to be more optimistic.
第九,修讀關于“幸福”的課程。關于“幸福”的研究就是要革新我們對心理學、經濟學和社會學的認知。首先要學會更積極地看待問題。
Take an acting course. The best actors are actually being their most authentic selves. You need to learn to communicate authentically so that people will listen and feel connected.
第十,修讀表演課。實際上最好的演員只是在演繹最真實的自己。你要學習真誠地與別人溝通,讓他人愿意聆聽并產生共鳴。
Learn to give a compliment. The best compliments are specific. Practice on your professors. If you give a good compliment the recipient will think you’re smarter: a big payoff in college, but a bigger payoff in the work world.
第十一,學會贊美別人。最好的贊美該是言之有物的。可以把你的教授當作練習對象。如果你贊美別人得當,對方會覺得你較為聰敏:在校園內能有豐厚的回報,在工作中更顯其效。
Use the career center. These people are experts at positioning you in the workforce and their only job is to get you a job. How can you not love this place? If you find yourself thinking the people at your college’s career center are idiots, it’s probably a sign that you really, really don’t know what you’re doing.
第十二,好好利用求職中心。這些專業人員會幫你在勞動市場中找準定位,他們的唯一工作就是幫你就業。你怎能不愛上這個地方?如果你覺得在大學求職中心里面的人是傻子,那很可能是因為你根本不知道自己在干什么。