Independence of the strong
獨(dú)立性很強(qiáng)
In the United States, learning is child thing. U.S. students develop a young age, "according interested in learning", "learning is its own thing," the self-learning attitude. Moreover, this independent spirit has already deep into all aspects of child development, if the United States, a child after the age of 18, we must own to make money to feed themselves. Even some very wealthy families, would normally not be spending all kinds of fees for children, but to write them to the home, IOUs, asking them to return after graduation. This spending your parents also have to repay the situation, in case of China, Chinese parents do not know think?
在美國(guó),學(xué)習(xí)是孩子自己的事。美國(guó)學(xué)生從小就養(yǎng)成了“按照興趣學(xué)習(xí)”、“學(xué)習(xí)是自己的事”的自主學(xué)習(xí)態(tài)度。不僅如此,這種獨(dú)立精神早已深入到孩子成長(zhǎng)的各個(gè)方面,如果在美國(guó),一個(gè)孩子18歲以后,就要自己去賺錢(qián)養(yǎng)活自己。即使是一些非常富裕的家庭,也通常不會(huì)替孩子支出各種費(fèi)用,而是要他們給家里寫(xiě)借條,要求他們畢業(yè)后返還。這種花父母的錢(qián)還要償還的情況,如果發(fā)生中國(guó),不知道中國(guó)的父母會(huì)怎么想呢?