4. Things are moving too fast- We've all been in a situation where a new relationship suddenly starts taking off at lightning speed. He wants to move in, he talks to your girlfriends about engagement rings, and he's already brainstorming the names of your unborn children. If this pace is making you feel like you've aged ten years in the span of two months, we suggest having a little chat with your significant other. It's completely appropriate to stand your ground and tell him to slow things down.
決不妥協(xié)四：進(jìn)展過(guò)快。你們的進(jìn)展速度飛快，他甚至開(kāi)始想你們結(jié)婚，生孩子，甚至孩子的名字的事情，這個(gè)時(shí)候你有必要告訴他自己還沒(méi)準(zhǔn)備好，希望能夠慢慢來(lái)。