7. Resolve to be firm but fair - letting someone down with a polite but clear message that you're not a match made in heaven, is better than being stuck on a second or third date because you don't want to upset them.
7. 對待感情同樣有原則——也許偶爾讓對方失望也不賴嘛!由于你禮貌的拒絕很清楚的告訴他你們并不非生來合適,這樣總好過你因為不想拒絕對方在第二次或者第三次約會時感情就遇到瓶頸。