最后一個,同時也是最重要的一個特點(diǎn),那就是女人喜歡傾聽,而男人喜歡訴說,比如下面一段對話,拿給普通的美國人看一遍,然后讓他們判斷一下A和B的性別,結(jié)果所有人都認(rèn)為:喋喋不休的A是男人,隨聲附和的B是女人。
A: I saw a king fisher Saturday morning.
B: Did you?
A: It took of about three feet from my side. I didn't see it in the bush. It took off out of a bush...
B: Mmmm.
A: Passed the front of my canoe and flew into a tree. I sat there...
B: Very nice.
A: And thought...
B: Yeah.
A: It looked down at me and it was really bright.
B: Beautiful.