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【編者按】
有沒有吸引力并不取決于你賺多少錢，也不取決于你的老爸是誰。而且，這完全不取決于你是否長得像湯姆·克魯斯或者他的妻子凱蒂·赫爾姆斯。這僅僅取決于一些簡單的細節，像湯姆·克魯斯一樣的人也不一定能辦到。而來自任何種族，任何國家，任何背景的人，都能成為世界上最有吸引力的人。
【原文1】
It's not about howmuch money you make, and it's not about who your daddy is. And no, it'sdefinitely not about whether you look like Tom Cruise or his wife KatieHolmes ... What it is about is these simple things, things that maybeeven a person like Tom Cruise does not have。
And note, we are notnecessarily talking about sexual (male attract female) things here.We're talking about being attractive in general, whether it's on a jobinterview or just gaining the respect of your colleagues .
Ask lots of questions
博學好問
In other words, behumble. If you come across as a know-it-all (even if you really do knowit all!)， it really pushes people away. Rather, asking lots and lots ofquestions (even dumb ones) makes people feel like you care, you can betrusted, and you are... humble。
Great posture
姿態怡人
Have you ever seen apotentially very attractive person, but they have terrible posture?It's all ruined, isn't it? Or perhaps you have seen someone who perhapscould be quite ugly but they have great posture and so suddenly theyare really attractive? It's true. Your posture says a lot about you -it says whether you have confidence, or simply if you really care.Talking physically, it is one of the most important physicalcharacteristics you need!
