1. Be yourself. 做你自己。
It's important to maintain self confidence by being yourself around girls. If you adopt an alternate personality to attract girls, you will eventually be weighed down with the feeling that your true self isn't good enough. It may help to develop and improve your social skills, but any girls that don't appreciate you for who you are don't deserve your attention。
在與女生們交往的過程中做好自己、擁有自信是非常重要的。如果你改變自己的個性去吸引她們的話,到頭來你會感到很失落——因為真實的你差勁到無法吸引女生。做你自己可以培養你的社交技巧,任何不欣賞你的女生都不值得你關注。