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Helping a friend get through the problem

幫助朋友自己解決問題

Give advice when necessary

在需要時提供意見

Sometimes friends may not be able to think of a solution and really want and need to hear your plan. At this point, you can give advice. However, don't just give general advice or reduce the severity of the problem, but help you find the best possible solution.

有時候朋友們可能想不出解決的辦法，但他們真的很想聽聽你的計劃。在這時候，你可以提出建議。但是，不要只是給出一般性的建議或減輕問題的嚴重性，而是要幫助您找到可能的最佳解決方案。

You give them specific advice, analyze them the good and the bad in that plan. They may follow your advice, or they may not. And let them know that no matter what decision they make, you will always be there.

你給他們具體的建議，分析計劃中好的和壞的方面。他們可能會聽從你的建議，也可能不會。讓他們知道，無論他們做了什么決定，你都會一直陪在他們身邊。

Becoming a good friend is about letting your friend choose and be responsible for their own solutions. This way they can become stronger, more discerning, and more self-reliant. Advice is in many cases necessary, however, you and the friend are not the same so handling your way is not always appropriate. The support of helping a friend get through the problem on their own, not relying on you or anyone else!

成為好朋友就是讓你的朋友選擇并為他們自己的解決方案負責。這樣他們可以變得更強大，更有眼光，更自立。建議在很多情況下是必要的，然而，你和你的朋友不一樣，所以你的處理方式并不總是合適的。幫助一個朋友自己解決問題，而不是依靠你或其他任何人!

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