可可電臺,每期節目一話題,讓英語磨練耳朵的同時學到更多有益的小知識,豐富知識的同時受益于生活。
Tips you can try to maximize the thinking, mulling, and considering time that can help fuel your creative work.
如何優化時間管理,進行思索、斟酌與考慮,從而強化創新思維
the most effective habits and strategies for squelching worry
有效消除憂慮的習慣和策略
They focus on the present.
活在當下
Perhaps one of the biggest differences between worriers and non-worriers is the ability to stay in the present, and not get bogged down by things that have yet to happen. Purdon calls it a "worry chain" -- the idea that one worry will spur a "what if," which spurs another worry and another "what if," and so on. Non-worriers are able to look at a problem and recognize what solution needs to be implemented, "but a worrier isn't able to get that kind of distance," she explains. "The mind goes a lot faster."
活在當下,不被尚未發生的事情困擾,這種能力也許就是衡量一個人是否容易憂慮的最主要區別。博登博士稱之為“憂慮連鎖”—就是一種擔心會激發另一個“假如“,再激發下一個“假如”,如此產生連鎖效應。不易憂慮的人能夠去看待難題并且找出需要的解決方法,“但是易憂慮的人卻無法達到那種程度,”她解釋道,“他們的思緒轉得很快。”
For instance, say your son comes home with a bad grade. If you're a worrier, you might then worry that this will cause your son to fail the class, which will then impair him from getting into college. However, if you're a non-worrier, you'll realize that the immediate issue at hand is just that your son needs to study harder in this particular class -- and that's that. "I'm able to say, 'He usually does really well, he's smart, he’s dedicated, he’ll be fine; this is a blip, not a pattern,'" Purdon says. Whereas when worriers become anxious, their "intentional focus narrows to threat cues. They can get themselves very anxious very quickly."
比如,你的兒子考試考砸回到家。如果你是個容易憂慮的人,你可能會擔心這會導致孩子最后掛科,可能會影響他上大學。然而,如果你是樂天派,你會意識到當下之急就是小孩需要在這門課上多用點兒功——僅此而已?!拔铱梢哉f,‘他一直做得很不錯,聰明又用功,他沒問題的;這只是個小挫折,不是常態,” 博登講道,然而,當憂慮者焦慮起來時,他們會“有意識地將注意力縮小到那些威脅性因素上,然后很快讓自己不安起來?!?/p>
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