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Relationship dos and don'ts to fortify your romance with harmony, stability, and joy
在情感關系中“一定要”和“一定不要”做的事,讓你們的愛情關系更加和諧、穩定、愉悅。
Do act in the right time: Time can be your biggest enemy or your best friend.
一定要在合適的時間做合適的事。時間可以是你最大的敵人,也可以是你最好的朋友。
The wisdom is to recognize when you should act versus when you should wait.
關鍵是你要用智慧分辨出什么時候應該有所行動、什么時候應該耐心等待。
Don't obligate your partner to do things in a certain amount of time.
一定不要強迫你的伴侶在限定的時間內做什么事。
Don't play on their weaknesses: Every day, you have the choice to play on your partner's weaknesses or to reiterate their strengths. If you constantly bring up what they're doing wrong, they'll never feel motivated to do anything right. No relationship can improve under such negative energy.
一定不要拿他們的弱點消遣。你每天都可以選擇消遣伴侶的缺點或者反復強調他們的優點。如果你不斷地說他們做錯了什么,那么他們就永遠都不會有做對的動力。在這種負能量作用下,情感關系是不可能向前發展的。
【知識點講解】
obligate vt.使(在法律或道義上)負有責任或義務; 對…施以恩惠;
例句:
The nature of the nutritional requirements for obligate parasites in nature is unknown.
人們還不知道自然界中專性寄生菌的營養要求的本質.
All the photosynthetic bacteria possess the capability in addition to various facultative aerobes and obligate anaerobes.
所有光合細菌加上各種兼性的好氧生物和絕對的厭氧生物具有這種能力.
Paul Ehrlich sees coevolution pushing two competitors into " obligate cooperation. "
保羅?埃爾利希認為共同進化推動兩個競爭對手進入 “ 強制合作. ”
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