可可電臺，每期節(jié)目一話題，讓英語磨練耳朵的同時學(xué)到更多有益的小知識，豐富知識的同時受益于生活。

快樂的人不信這一套。

I'm in control of things.

我在控制世事。

As hard as you work, and as much as you try to planit all out, you're just not in control. You cannot control the actions orthoughts of others. In order to reach happiness, happy people accept this inevitable truth and learn to be proactive rather than reactive to life's surprises and mishaps.

像你一樣努力工作,盡可能多的你想全力以赴計劃這一切,你只是控制不了。你不能控制別人的行為或想法。為了得到幸福,快樂的人接受這一不可避免的事實,學(xué)會積極主動而不是被動的承受生活的驚喜和意外。

People are obligated to love me a specific way.

人們有義務(wù)以一個特定的方式愛我。

If your happiness is dependent on how other people feel about you, you will never be happy. You can't please everyone and youcertainly can't force anyone to love you in a specific way. Happy people acceptthe way their loved ones feel, and work at showing their affection and asking for what they need rather than expecting people to love them the way they wantto be loved.

如果你的幸福取決于于別人對你的感覺如何,你永遠(yuǎn)不會快樂。你不可能討好每一個人,你當(dāng)然也不能強迫任何人以一個特定的方式去愛你。快樂的人接受親人的感覺,和致力于表現(xiàn)他們的情感和尋找他們需要什么,而不是希望人們以他們想要被愛的方式愛他們。

【知識點講解】

in control of 控制； 掌握； 管理

例句：

Who's in control of the project?

誰是這個項目的負(fù)責(zé)人?

Lost control of the skidding car; the leaders in control of the country.

打滑的汽車失去控制; 管理國家的領(lǐng)導(dǎo)人們。

dependent on 取決于, 依賴

例句：

All is dependent on your decision.

一切看你的決心而定。

The child is dependent on his parents for support.

這個小孩靠他的父母養(yǎng)活。

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