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Stop feeling like you should have all the answers
不要再覺得你應該無所不知
Uncertainty is the way things are, and trying to fight is like trying to fight an angry bear with a wet fish. It'll just leaveyou exhausted, scared and broken. So relax a little. Understand that uncertainty is natural, and know that doing your best is plenty good enough asa response.
事情就是不確定的,企圖斗爭好比和一頭怒熊抗衡、爭奪鮮魚。你只會精疲力竭、擔驚受怕、身心俱碎。放松一點,明白世事無常乃常態。要知道,盡最大努力這種做法本身就是不錯的回應。
Prioritise play over success
兩相權衡,游戲比成功重要
Extrinsic success is easy, cheap even. So it's through play—through engaging with the things that make you feel joy orconnected and experience more success than fitting in with expectations willever give you.
外在的成功來得容易、甚至可以說來得廉價。所以說,是通過游戲競爭、去參與你覺得開心和能帶動你的事情, 去體驗更多的成功,而不是去迎合外界帶給你的期冀。
Stop comparing
停止抱怨
Today, every time you compare yourself to someoneelse, you threaten to undermine your self and your efficacy, or inflate yourego. Comparison is irrelevant. The only thing that's relevant is your abilityto approach a decision.
如今,每次你與他人相較,你就有貶低自己、削弱自己效益的風險,甚至有自我膨脹的危險。比較無甚相關,唯一相關的是你做決策的能力。
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