評(píng)論
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Admitting guilt
承認(rèn)錯(cuò)誤
Giving advice is a lot easier than receiving it.
給予建議比接受建議更容易。
Telling someone that he was wrong is a lot easier than admitting that you made a mistake.
當(dāng)然告訴別人他是錯(cuò)的比承認(rèn)自己犯錯(cuò)誤更容易。
Writing a timeout everyday is not easy but trying to live up to all of my timeout goals and ideas, gosh!
每天停下來想一想不是件容易的事,但試圖用暫停來達(dá)到我的目標(biāo)和想法,唉!
It's almost impossible.
這幾乎也是不可能的。
I know someone who is great at giving advice but when you point out some area where he can improve him getdefensive.
我認(rèn)識(shí)一個(gè)人,他的偉大之處就是在于給別人提建議，但當(dāng)你指出他可以改進(jìn)的一些地方時(shí)他就變得懷有戒心。
The more you try and tell him about a mistake he made the more defensive he gets.
而你越是嘗試告訴他關(guān)于他犯的一個(gè)錯(cuò)誤,他就越變得有戒心。
So for that person I've given up trying.
所以基于這個(gè)原因我已經(jīng)放棄了嘗試。
All of my friends have. I can't give up on my kids though.
我所有的朋友都是如此。但我不能放棄我的孩子們。
If my son makes a mistake and I pointed it out, the first thing that comes from his lips is 'No!' It's a blame refusal to admit his mistake.
如果我兒子犯了一個(gè)過錯(cuò)而且經(jīng)我指出,他嘴里說出的第一個(gè)詞就是“不!”。這是一種承認(rèn)他錯(cuò)誤的奇怪拒絕。
It's never 'Yes, daddy, you are right.' Or 'Okay mummy, sorry.' It's 'No, it's not my fault' or 'It's wasn't me.'
他從來沒有說過“是的,爸爸,你是對(duì)的。或好媽媽,對(duì)不起。”一直都是“不,這不是我的錯(cuò)或者絕對(duì)不是我。”
I do the same things sometimes.
有時(shí)我也經(jīng)常會(huì)做同樣的事情。
Perhaps it's human nature.
也許它是人類的天性。
Perhaps my son got his habit from me.
也或許是有其父必有其子的緣故。
No! It couldn't be my fault, could it?
不!不可能是我的錯(cuò),可能嗎?
Talk about it：
談?wù)撓旅娴脑掝}:
Are you good at accepting advice?
你善于接受建議嗎?
Are you quick to admit guilt?
你很快就會(huì)承認(rèn)錯(cuò)誤嗎?
Do you apologize quickly?
很快你就會(huì)道歉嗎?
Have you ever defended your actions even though you knew you were wrong?
即使你知道你錯(cuò)了，你有沒有捍衛(wèi)你的行為?
Do you know someone maybe in your family who tends to be great at giving advice but terrible at receiving it?
在你的家庭中有沒有一個(gè)往往在給予建議時(shí)候非常偉大,但接受建議的時(shí)候就會(huì)變得很可怕?
Do you give good advice to your friends and family?
你給你的家人和朋友提出了很好的建議嗎?
What kinds of problems do people talk to you about?
人們跟你談?wù)撌裁礃拥膯栴}?
How does feeling guilty affect us?
感到內(nèi)疚會(huì)如何影響我們?
