Voice 2: Experts say that these are things that every marriage needs to succeed in the long term —— respect, care and love. But how do husbands and wives manage this every day? Every month? Every year?
聲音2:專家表示,這些是每段婚姻要想長時間保持成功所需要的——尊重、關心和愛。那丈夫和妻子每天、每個月、每年要如何處理?
I spoke to one of our recently married producers. I asked her how she and her husband managed. She said,
我和我們節目最近剛剛結婚的一名制作人談了一下。我問她和她丈夫是怎么做的。她表示,
Voice 3: "Marriage is a great joy. But it is not always easy. One thing that helps us is turning to God each day. We pray about our marriage. We ask God to help us to always respect each other. We pray that we will always act as a team, even during the difficult times. I pray for my husband. And he prays for me. It is hard to be angry with someone whom you pray for daily!
聲音3:“婚姻是巨大的喜悅。但并不總是容易的。其中一件能幫助我們的事情就是每天求助于上帝。我們為我們的婚姻祈禱。我們請上帝幫助我們永遠互相尊重。我們祈禱,即使在困難時期,我們也能永遠團結協作。我為我的丈夫祈禱。他也為我祈禱。很難對你每天都為他祈禱的人生氣!
We have found that when we invite God into our marriage, it is stronger. We feel closer. We feel more love for each other. When we forget to put God first we start to feel a distance between us. We fight more. And we are not as patient with each others mistakes. God is a tie that helps hold us together. The Christian Bible says, 'if God is for us who can be against us?'"
我們發現,當我們邀請上帝進入我們的婚姻時,婚姻變得更加牢固。我們感覺更親密了。我們更愛彼此了。當我們忘記將上帝放在首位時,我們就會開始感覺到我們之間的距離。我們的爭吵會變多。我們對彼此的錯誤不再有耐心。上帝是幫助我們團結在一起的紐帶。基督教圣經寫道:‘如果上帝支持我們,誰還能反對我們?’”
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