英文學習筆記：
handle v. 處理；對待
awesome adj. 了不起的；精彩的，絕妙的
trait n. 特征；特點

take advantage of 利用；占…的便宜

coward n. 懦夫

Most people who can’t reject people are afraid that the person they’re talking to can’t handle rejection. They’re afraid that if they say no, the person won’t want to talk to them anymore.

大多數不會拒絕別人的人，是因為害怕對方不能好好處理他們的拒絕。他們害怕如果他們說不，這個人以后不會想和他們說話了。
Because I have the awesome personality trait of not caring about people’s feelings,especially if I don’t know them well. Don’t get me wrong, It isn’t that I don’t care about people at all but if someone’s feelings are hurt because I said no to something, It doesn’t matter to me. I must have had a good reason to say no.
因為我的性格特質就是不在意別人的感受，特別是我不太了解他們的情況下。別誤會，這不是我根本不關心別人，如果某人的感情受到了傷害是因為我說不，那其實和我無關。我有理由說不。
I think it’s stupid. There are a lot of bad people out there that take advantage of people who can’t say no. Because we have these weak people, we have the bad people. If everyone was tough, there wouldn’t be such cowards that try to take advantage of other people.
這是愚蠢的。有很多壞人利用那些不會說不的人。因為有這些軟弱的人，才會有不好的人。如果每個人都稍微強硬一點，就應該不會有這么多人被利用。
Be more confident! Think about it, if that person that asked you for something doesn’t want to be your friend anymore because you wouldn’t give it to them, is that REALLY the kind of people you want being your friend? No! It’s better to have 3 friends you can really rely on and trust rather than 100 friends that are all just out to get something from you!
自信一點！設想一下，如果有人因為問你要什么你拒絕了他而不再和你做朋友。這樣的人真的是你想當成朋友的人嗎？當然不是 ！最好就是有 3 位你能真正依靠和相信的朋友，這樣比你擁有100個只想從你身上得到什么東西要好得多！

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