講解
Today’s key word is Alone
Alone 孤獨地，孤單的
When you are alone, you are not with any other people.

Here is an example:
If you live alone, sometimes you have to learn, little by little, to cope with loneliness.
如果你獨居，那么有時你就需要一點一點的學會適應孤獨。

But if you listen to this episode, you don’t need to be alone.大家應該都看過or聽過一部電影，他其實沒那么喜歡你，He is just not that into you，Yes, sometimes there is no other reason. He is just not that into you.那么，怎么才能避免尷尬，分辨一個男孩到底喜不喜歡你呢？

Here are some signs:
1.If a guy doesn’t talk to you first, he probably doesn’t like you. Girls, ladies, if you always have to call him, text him or wechat him first, it is not a good sign. If he is not trying to talk to you, I am sorry, he doesn’t like you. He may like you as a friend, but

2.If you finally got the courage to ask a guy out or ask him to do something. 然而這個男生特別禮貌的告訴你，我很忙，改天吧。Sure, maybe he is actually busy at the moment.但如果問了幾次他都很忙，I’m sorry he is just not that into you. Because if he really likes you, he will drop anything and everything to hang out with you.

3.Another sign is that he doesn’t like to touch you. 總是避免和你有自然的身體接觸。If he is keeping his distance, it is not a good sign. Come on! No guy wants to keep his distance from the girl he likes. If he does that, either he doesn’t like you or he is a gay.

4.If he is calling you “man” “dude” or 兄弟，哥們之類的特別具有男子氣質(zhì)的別名。You may already be in his friend zone.So stop thinking about being his girlfriend you are now officially a bro-friend.

5.If you like a guy and he likes you back, he will not flirt（調(diào)戲？） with other girls at least not in front of you. 如果你正跟他說話呢，他突然：OH 那個美女身材好好啊，Girl, he doesn't like you, he likes her.

Finally, one important sign from the film ”He is just not that into you.”Have you ever stared at your phone during your first date with a guy? 跟某個心儀的男生見面后，回家后去廁所拿著手機，洗澡拿著手機，做飯拿著手機，看電視拿著手機，睡覺前，睡醒后都要先看手機，還自己給自己打電話，怕手機欠費。在心里默默的給他找理由，他可能在忙，可能受傷住院了，可能不小心把你的號碼丟了正在瘋狂的找你的聯(lián)系方式。

You tell yourself “he is totally going to call me” No, he is not!