And what you need to do is to honor that
你所需要做的 是尊重這個事實
to understand it, to unearth it
去理解它 去挖掘它
to listen to this other voice
去傾聽這個相反的聲音
All right, I'm losing this now, because
我現在要把帽子摘掉
otherwise it's coming off in a dramatic fashion at the wrong time
否則它肯定會在錯誤的時候 以很丟臉的方式飛出去
I know. I worked on this hair for a long time, so
我知道 我頭發很久前就這樣了
I had to bust it out
我需要去生發了
You have, which is a rare thing
你們有一個很特別的東西
that ability and the responsibility to listen to the dissent in yourself
也就是 傾聽自身異議的能力和責任
to at least give it the floor, because it is the key
至少是讓它展現出來 因為這很關鍵
not only to consciousness, but to real growth
不僅對意識而言 也對實際生長而言
To accept duality is to earn identity
接受二元性 才能獲得個人身份
And identity is something that you are constantly earning
個人身份是你們一直在努力獲得的事物
It is not just who you are
它不僅僅是你是誰
It is a process that you must be active in
這是一個你必須積極參與的過程
It's not just parroting your parents or the thoughts of your learned teachers
這不僅僅是機械模仿父母或博學的老師的思維方式
It is now more than ever about understanding yourself so you can become yourself
現在需要更多地理解自己 從而讓你成為真正的自己
I talk about this contradiction, and this tension
我講了這個矛盾 這個張力
there's two things I want to say about it
關于這個 我有兩點要說的
One, it never goes away
一是 它永遠不會消失
And if you think that achieving something, if you think that solving something
如果你認為達到什么高度 解決什么問題
if you think a career or a relationship will quiet that voice
或者擁有什么職業或關系就能平息這個聲音
it will not
那你就錯了
If you think that happiness means total peace
如果你認為幸福就是完全的平靜
you will never be happy
那你將永遠無法幸福
Peace comes from the acceptance of the part of you that can never be at peace
平靜來自于對你內心深處永遠無法平靜這一事實的接受