今天的我們要說說“愛” 這種熾烈的情感,愛在相愛的人之間會是一種怎樣的化學反應呢?從有趣的科學的角度來看,腦科學以及心理學研究發(fā)現(xiàn)浪漫的愛情是一種生物程序,有關愛的行為源于多種吸引力,更有趣的是,人們會在遇見和自己相似或相異的人時產生最濃烈的愛的感覺,那么問題來了,你會愛上怎樣的人?——與你性格脾氣愛好觀念非常契合,相見恨晚的那個人,還是與你天壤之別,但是充滿莫明魅力讓你一見鐘情相處亦非常合拍的人?不妨思考一下自己對愛的感覺,愛的要求,看看自己到底是“物以類聚”黨還是“異類相吸”黨呢?今天的陣營歡迎你來打擂,亮出你的愛情態(tài)度(愛情甜蜜的朋友更可以大膽秀恩愛,實證說話)
Dialogue:
XG:So, how did your last date go with that guy, Jing Jing?
JJ:I don't even wanna talk about it. I thought he was going to be Mr. Right, but he turned out to be Mr. Wrong. I don't understand... —————————————
XG:Well, that might be the problem right there.
JJ:What do you mean?
XG:I mean, maybe you should look for someone who is different from you. Take the “opposites attract” route, instead of the “birds of a feather flock together” one.
JJ:Really? ———————————————————soulmate?
XG:Well, think about it. The other person will seem more interesting. If you are dating someone who is similar to you, ————————
JJ:I see your point…
XG:And it's good to have someone who helps you leave your comfort zone. ————————————— then maybe it would be a good idea to date an extrovert who enjoys being around lots of other people and going out.
JJ:Yeah, that's true. But we should be careful not to go overboard. If people are too opposite, they might argue and never get along. I think finding the right balance is what matters most. In other words, ————-------/ —————————————
XG:Well, I'm glad I could help!
New words for dialogue:
Mr. Right =
Opposites attract =
Birds of a feather flock together =
Soulmate =
Comfort zone =
Introvert =
Extrovert =
Go overboard =
Against [something] =