Taking Love For Granted

Robi Ludwig from Cookie magazine and Finesse Mitchell from Essence magazine talk to Harry Smith about how to make time for love in the busy lives men and women lead today.

It's the job, friends, the internet, do you have time for everyone and everything except your expects, are you tooo busy for your relationships? joining us ... from cookie magazineand essence magazine comlumnist.

.... we are very familiary with you all my life. How are you? Good to see you. Your guys are doing right?

Yes, great.

so would you busy? We are walking around the town, everybody down there, you know, cellphone, and they are on their things, and their...you know,trying to save their jobs. Because the Wall Street goes down to ... we are too busy for love, is it possible that we are too busy for love?

Well, i think we are taking our relationships for granted.

Yep.

And once we work together, we say you know i love you, even though i don't talk to you... all the time. i think we have to acknowdlege too. You work like .. into your whole life, so we need to be really more delibetelly about our relationship than we sometimes that could be really relationships suicide.

See, i think men attempt to be pretty selfish though. Right? Because they have their jobs, they have their dreams, they have their friends, they have their golf, they have ...right? All that ...You know they have got to the sports center, whose get time to rub your girlfriends feet? ...

Would you do up to the show?

You can rub your feet,why do you love sports? Rihgt/ That's she wants to be in the room, why you ...?

Probably not.

Probably not, so a lot of women sometimes feel, you know, why am i competing tv, why i compete this or that? So i think it would not be necessary to talk about everything. You know, You have to compromise, because when a woman is just as busy.. she sometimes is hash with man, you know, the man is ... and the man is, you know.,sometimes ...

What about me?

Right? Don't ...complain like ...

Sure.

Really, what you need to know, you want to know when you pay attention to somebody, it's love as equal as love it, you give your attention to them on the way they want you to give attention.

We bring this subjects, because all these high profile man ...last couple of weeks, last couple of months, your guys ...Richie and McDonald. you could...